There was \u2026 an object in the intersphere \u2013 post, article, meme, whatever \u2013 about the nightmare of modern dating, and how people who have managed to get married should probably stay there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
On the Tubes ofYou Rollo Tomassi and Aaron Clarey are big in the \u201cmanosphere,\u201d the MGTOW (MenGoingTheirOwnWay), Incel(?), whole Red Pill thing \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I like watching because I like car accidents and plane crashes and train derailments \u2026 no kittens, tho\u2019, and no puppies. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You kill the dog and we will never<\/em> be friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anywhatever these guys sum up the man experience in regards to woman with two questions:<\/p>\n\n\n\n And then they complain that they only meet sociopaths. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ha! Funny\u2014if every relationship you\u2019ve ever had has failed, you must look at the single factor that is universally common \u2026 which is, of course, you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There\u2019s also a space for \u201chypergamy\u201d(wat) which seems to be women focused on getting men with the most stuff or, at a minimum, access to most stuff.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s an ugly, ugly scene.\u00a0 Ahhh to be \u201cswiped\u201d \u2026 as in, to be smeared and wiped at once.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Perhaps Motivation #3 should be decisive \u201cswipe\u201d avoidance. Ewww<\/p>\n\n\n\n The example me \u2018n Half (i.e., Motivation #1) try to set for theKid (i.e., Motivation #2) to witness, analyze, and interpret is that, despite our dysfunction there is an underlying, fundamental commitment to the partnership, and an important part of that is me demonstrating to theKid the essential importance of the individual money marriage as well as marriage involving another person.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n theKid has seen our battles and is now a witness to my\/our\/us individual efforts to eliminate debt to improve the family\u2019s financial future. Motivation #2 is a big deal, and deserves better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Although some obstacles cannot be overcome, such as<\/p>\n\n\n\n Infidelity \u2013 unrepentant & repeated \u2026 generally, everything else can be resolved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n One additional lesson our marital experience is designed to show theKid is that committed partnerships impact all other areas of life; thus, of upmost importance is choosing wisely in matters involving business relationships & personal pursuits \u2026 money & sex \u2026 and that, prior to selecting another human for interaction, for whatever reason, consider the entire person \u2013 physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, as well as the financial \u2013 because the visual only provides the initial attraction … some of the most beautiful people can be unimaginably ugly.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Actively decide if this is a person who could be an actual friend, then move accordingly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Said it before, reiterate here:\u00a0 I should have remained single until I was successful at adulting \u2026 \u2026 \u2018sOK, tho\u2019 \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n … GOD<\/em><\/strong> has given me wings [grins stoopitly] {Luke 24:6-7<\/em>}!<\/p>\n\n\n\n So debt\/poor money management\/financial irresponsibility does not have to be a marital deal-breaker, but the unwillingness to improve the situation … is.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n I HAVE A BIG WILLY ohwait \u2026 a big willingness to improve, that is \u2026 providing theKid a good example and unified front with Half \u2026 money = Motivation #1\/#2<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" There was \u2026 an object in the intersphere \u2013 post, article, meme, whatever \u2013 about the nightmare of modern dating, and how people who have managed to get married should probably stay there. On the Tubes ofYou Rollo Tomassi and Aaron Clarey are big in the \u201cmanosphere,\u201d the MGTOW (MenGoingTheirOwnWay), Incel(?), whole Red Pill thing … <\/p>\n
Abuse \u2013 violent & physical
Addiction \u2013 destructive & untreated<\/p>\n\n\n\n
now, however, gotta learn to fly the plane while building it in mid-air …<\/p>\n\n\n\n