{"id":328,"date":"2021-04-27T01:53:57","date_gmt":"2021-04-27T01:53:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/?p=328"},"modified":"2021-04-27T02:03:29","modified_gmt":"2021-04-27T02:03:29","slug":"better-living-through-not-being-an-ahole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/?p=328","title":{"rendered":"Better Living Through Not Being an A**hole"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I may have stated earlier that I am a horrible person, and actively relish being so.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t like people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Overall, people are usually a disappointment, and unnecessary frustration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">HOWEVER<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Individuals are occasionally OK.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My spouse is an individual, and although I am still uncertain as to why Half remains betrothed to thee I am essentially, fundamentally, and ever-presently grateful, thankful, and blessed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That being said &#8212; Motivation #1 to be a better person.  And not just with debt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perhaps mentioned (perhaps shouldn&#8217;t) theKid once said that Half and other half didn&#8217;t seem to like each other very much.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This, from a person on earth less than a decade.  Eee, need to do\/act\/be better.  Be best.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The sad thing?  Same problem with debt.  Inattention.  Going through the motions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The good thing?  Motivation #2 is really Motivation 2.0, and I don&#8217;t know what I did to deserve theKid, but let me keep on doing it.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Motivation 2.0 comment re lack of obvious affection switched the lightbulb on &#8230; I\/we\/us finally got it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We are not alone.  Need to stop acting like we are.  And I found that it&#8217;s easy to be a better person &#8230; when you consider &#8230; other people.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ooo.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But how to do that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everyday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ugh?  Everyday?  Yes.  If you are breathing, you can do better.  I like that.  Second chances for everyone!  {<em>Luke 18:27<\/em>}   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I may have stated earlier that I am a horrible person, and actively relish being so. I don&#8217;t like people. Overall, people are usually a disappointment, and unnecessary frustration. HOWEVER Individuals are occasionally OK. My spouse is an individual, and although I am still uncertain as to why Half remains betrothed to thee I am &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/?p=328\" class=\"more-link\">Read the full post &rarr;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">&#8220;Better Living Through Not Being an A**hole&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[21,28,20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-328","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nobuy","category-proof-of-god","category-kids"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/328","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=328"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/328\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":434,"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/328\/revisions\/434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=328"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=328"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moneyaintmath.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=328"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}